If you’ve had difficulty in connecting with your twin, and the efforts you make only pushes your twin away, then you may have been doing the mistakes that most couples are doing at this present moment. You are either both in feminine or masculine energies.
A relationship is successful when there is polarity between the partners. The greater the difference between the two energies of the couple, the stronger the attraction.
For there to be a divine connection between two people in any type of relationship, one partner must be in feminine energy, and the other in masculine energy. It doesn't matter if the relationship is between a man and a woman, or has same sex partners. This creates a polar attraction that feels comfortable for the couple. If the woman takes on a masculine role, it pushes the man to be in a feminine position. A divine masculine man will not feel comfortable with this. He will start to respond less to phone calls and text messages, and he will start making excuses. He’ll start to say phrases you may be familiar with, such as “I’m not ready for a relationship,” or “It’s not you, it’s me.” If the man chooses to stay predominantly in his feminine energy, he will seem lazy and uninterested in the relationship. This will make the woman feel self-conscious, unwanted, and unloved.
A person in their Divine energy state is someone who has done inner-work and is emotionally healed. They have better control over their emotion, and they know exactly what they require from their partner. They aren’t ruled by old paradigm mindset that made it necessary to be in a wounded state of lack. The old-paradigm concept of relationships is that it's too difficult, and it's necessary for each partner to accept the pain and hardship that is necessary to sustain a lasting relationship. Instead, the Divine couple are aligned with the new paradigm that honors being loving, authentic, and establishing better communication with others. This is not to say that we should be in feminine energy at all the time, or the men in our lives will won’t budge from his masculine energy.
A right balance of feminine and masculine energy in each of us is necessary for us to experience a healthy flow of energies.
Here’s a summary of each type of the energies:
DIVINE MASCULINE ENERGY
A man in his divine masculine energy is a doer. He will care and of nurture his woman because these are the traits he possesses, contrary to what society has told us.
His pace is fast while he is accomplishing his tasks.
He is the purser. He feels better when he is chasing his divine feminine and is turned off by a woman who is constantly seeking his attention.
He is the logical thinker who takes the lead in direction of the relationship. He will use phrases, such as, “I think…”
He is confident and competitive, yet gentle and giving.
WOUNDED MASCULINE ENERGY
A man in wounded masculine energy is distant and has difficulty connecting with a woman.
He lacks respect for women and can be dominating and controlling.
He tends to act out of fear and may be aggressive.
A woman in this form of energy is bossy. She nags often and is constantly trying to control the relationship. She tells the man how to behave and dictates his feelings. She feels as though she must fight for his attention in order to keep him.
DIVINE FEMININE ENERGY
A woman in her diving feminine energy is the receiver.
She moves slowly and sensually when she is walking, sitting, and while she is lying down.
Her voice is low and soft.
She “feels” her emotion. When she feels with her body, she can be most authentic. Her body will let her know whether a man’s behavior makes her feel good, or if there is something that’s off. Instead of thinking, she will ask her body to guide her feelings. She will communicate her needs and concerns with the man by saying “I feel...”
She compliments her man when necessary, instead of criticizing him and finding faults.
She exhibits a high level of self-love and self-esteem.
WOUNDED FEMININE ENERGY
She will most likely exhibit low self-esteem and feels undervalued.
Her self-worth is measured by people’s perception of her instead of finding her beauty from within.
She feels unworthy of real love and will settle for any attention that she receives from a man, even if he is below her standards.
She will have difficulty maintaining her boundaries because she is afraid of losing the man’s interest if she does.
She fills the emptiness she feels inside with emotional and sexual energies exhibited by her partner. This causes her to become codependent on him because she feels as though she will fall apart if he removes these from her.
A man in this form of energy is preoccupied with himself and pays little attention to the woman. He is lazy and expects the woman to take care of him. He is not easily satisfied and is constantly seeking for external factors to fulfill the emptiness he feels inside.
We take on different energies in various stages of our lives. You have the power to choose the energy that you want to be in. However, being a high valued woman means that you are operating in the Divine Feminine energy most of the time, and the same goes true for a high valued man who is mostly in his Divine Masculine energy.
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